Definition
I define a life less confined as living authentically, in alignment and abundance. Where you no longer hide any part of who you are; you let it radiate fully. You stop letting your ego and other people’s limiting beliefs dictate who you are or how you live your life.
Vision
To be the bridge that helps people heal so the world can cross over to a more peaceful state and we can all live a life less confined.
Mission
I write content that triggers people’s healing. Some of the ways I do that include:
- Whimsy, joy and laughter,
- Mirroring people back to themselves,
- Speaking the truth and holding people accountable,
- Being people’s teacher, mentor, or role model,
- Etc.
What I write often makes people angry because the ego never goes down without a fight.
Guiding Principles
- Respect
- Courtesy
- Compassion
- Collaboration
- Authenticity
- Fulfilment
- Curiosity
- Kindness
- Generosity
- Honesty
- Freedom
- Integrity
- Forgiveness
- Persistence
- Humility
- Being of service
- Creativity
- Innovation
- Joy
- Courage
- Gratitude
Why I started this blog
Watching what’s been happening in the United States, and around the world, since Donald Trump was elected to a second term as President has been nothing short of horrifying.
My white, Canadian privilege had up till now shielded me from a lot of the hate that has re-surfaced in 2026. I didn’t realize how uneducated people are or saw how many people are still living lives based in the fears and insecurities of their ego. It’s heartbreaking. Especially because it doesn’t have to be this way.
I couldn’t just sit by and watch people suffer needlessly. I had to at least try to do something, and since I’m too big of a coward to do activism in person, here we are.
I’m going to keep the public posts more vanilla, because I don’t want it to interfere with my getting or keeping a job. I also believe that in these times, joy and whimsy, and kindness are acts of rebellion.
For now, the more divisive and controversial stuff will be behind a paywall. Hopefully that will deter some of the trolls from entering the tougher conversations. I welcome criticism and disagreements, but they need to be constructive.
About Me
I turned 50, in 2025, which brings with it perimenopause to go along with my ADHD, depression and occasional anxiety. Good times all around.
It has also brought along a more acute awareness that my time on this earth is running out, so if I’m going to live the life of my dreams, the time for procrastination is over.
Thankfully, one positive symptom of perimenopause is less caring about what others think or what society says I’m “supposed” to do, which greatly helps in reaching that dream life.
I’m the grateful mother of two amazing young adults, a daughter and a son (see photo above), both in their early twenties and currently thriving! I would love to share more about them on this website, but it’s not my place and not everyone out there is worthy.
I was married to their father for nearly a decade but have been divorced for close to twenty years. I’m at the point now where I’m open to a new relationship, but not actively seeking one.
I’m cis (she/her), straight, and caucasian (ancestors from France and I’m fluent in both of Canada’s official languages).
My nickname is Bridge, and I currently reside in Saskatoon (YXE), nicknamed the City of Bridges. I plan to do a lot more travelling.
I’m spiritual, meaning I believe we are all connected to each other and to the infinite, but I don’t practice any religion.
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Gallery of stunning and silliness
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